Learning from their mistakes.
“Vanderpump Rules” stars Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz issued a PSA Thursday to try to prevent others from cheating in their relationships — despite their own infidelity.
“You should give a PSA right now. If you’re unhappy in your relationship [or] if you feel lost or have experienced feelings for a coworker and it’s starting to escalate, don’t do it,” Schwartz said on Sandoval’s “Everbody Loves Tom” podcast Thursday.
“Don’t do it. Just sit down and have that very uncomfortable conversation with your partner. Go to therapy, or just say it’s over. Don’t have a f–king affair!”
Sandoval — who was involved in one of the most shocking cheating scandals in Bravo history this year — also shared advice for his listeners based on his own drama.
“One thing that really kept me hanging on was the insecurity I had in myself,” the musician, 41, said. “I felt like. ‘Oh, my gosh, I can’t lose this other person because I’ll never get this.’”
Sandoval added, “I had such an insecurity with myself that I felt if I let this go, it will never happen again You can [find that again]. And banking on that is a much safer bet than staying and doing and living in that.”
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The “Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test” alum said you can become and “addict” and feel “euphoria” when you cheat.
“You start to hide from the reality of the rest of your life. And you just become lost in that,” he explained.
“Dude, I look back on that now and I’m like, ‘Holy s–t.’ And Schwartz and other people around me, they saw me and I was f–king fixated and barely present.”
Sandoval became public enemy number one after he and his longtime girlfriend, Ariana Madix, split in March after nearly 10 years together.
At the time, the “Dancing With the Stars” alum, 38, found…
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